Like many, I discovered the infamous YouTube channels GirlDefined and EmmaMaeJenkins not by logging onto their pages, but by watching videos of people mocking them. I say “infamous” because there is little support to be found for either of these channels. GirlDefined, a ministry run by two married sisters in…

For a while, I followed the band wagon of watching these girls' videos just to point out every flaw in their thoughts and feel better about myself. I know that my criticism of these Christian leaders was totally from a place of self-righteousness. It feels good to feel like you're right, and friends often benefit from "bonding" via mutual hatred for the same thing. While poking fun in private can sometimes be harmless, we must be careful to monitor the difference between making playful jokes and beating others over the head with our baton of perceived superiority.

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Most days, I want to delete this blog. I want to archive all my Instagram pictures and find a new passion besides publishing my words because I think, “Who am I to be sharing my opinions? Who cares?” I would never refer to myself as a blogger because I think…

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Joel Osteen preaches prosperity gospel. Joyce Meyer is a woman with headship over men. Jen Hatmaker affirms LGBTQ. He does yoga. She doesn’t believe in a seven-day creation. He doesn’t believe in tithing.   These people and practices like these are constantly deemed “heretical” by Evangelical Christians. While I do…

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Okay, so I didn’t graduate that early. Just one semester ahead. I strutted the stage on December 14th, 2018 and haven’t looked back since. While I obviously needed the university I went to so that I could obtain the type of education I wanted, my best life was not spent…

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When I was an Editor-in-Chief for TheOdysseyOnline, I wrote a blog post about why I don’t believe in husband check lists. You probably know what I’m talking about, and you may even have your own husband check list. If you never attended a girls’ bible study and have no idea…

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