Look, if you’re planning your own wedding or are thinking about doing so, you don’t have time for lengthy introductions. Let’s get right into what you came here for, shall we? Here’s everything I learned by planning my own wedding that could save you some sweat and stress when managing…

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If you haven’t already heard of deconstructionism from Josh Harris’ shocking Instagram caption where he denounced his faith or from the hoards of church-reared Millennials who are in the “deconstruction” phase, I’ll define it for you: Deconstruction is popularly known as the phase in which once more traditional Believers step…

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Had someone asked me this question about six months ago, I would have scoffed and said, “No, of course not!” assuming them to be a legalistic killjoy. At that time in my life, I really needed some self-care. I needed to slow down my life, take more deep breaths and…

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I imagined myself as the adulterous woman crouched at Jesus feet, and where her accusers stood, I saw a dozen different clones of myself, pointing at me and mocking me……

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Like many, I discovered the infamous YouTube channels GirlDefined and EmmaMaeJenkins not by logging onto their pages, but by watching videos of people mocking them. I say “infamous” because there is little support to be found for either of these channels. GirlDefined, a ministry run by two married sisters in…

For a while, I followed the band wagon of watching these girls' videos just to point out every flaw in their thoughts and feel better about myself. I know that my criticism of these Christian leaders was totally from a place of self-righteousness. It feels good to feel like you're right, and friends often benefit from "bonding" via mutual hatred for the same thing. While poking fun in private can sometimes be harmless, we must be careful to monitor the difference between making playful jokes and beating others over the head with our baton of perceived superiority.

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